Sometimes the situations we face in life cannot be discussed openly, because of the vulnerability that comes with it which in turn produces shame and guilt that holds us down to find solutions all by ourselves. But instead of our “Self Made Solutions” freeing us, they only take us from who we are suppose to be, to who we should NEVER become, which eventually leads to despair of the entirety of life we once believed we shall always enjoy.
In this instance, I am talking about wives who once made a Vow, and believed that after marriage, only their husbands will see their naked bodies, but unfortunately because of their husband’s unfaithfulness, insensitivity, self-centeredness, and disobedience to the will of God for their lives, have for reasons without number stayed away from performing their sexual obligations to their wives, thereby giving room for satan to Tempt their wives, making these married women start looking for love again in all the wrong places, breaking the vows that mean the most to them.
We know these women, because they are our Mothers, Aunts, Sisters, Cousins, Colleagues, Pastors and Friends. At one time or the other, they have confided in us that they have not had sex with their husbands in a long while, and now are very vulnerable to go out and look for whoever will do it with them. Unfortunately most of the time, we are helpless, not knowing what to tell them, or how to help them.
Please tell them they are not alone, they don’t have to cheat on their Unfaithful Husbands, because there is HOPE, since so much is being done to help them keep their lives intact, and with so much JOY!
